How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 11:53
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why in my 60s do I have a strong desire to suck cock and swallow?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why do you think it is bad to allow people to self-identify as a different gender?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How do you know when your skirt is too short?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What are the most outrageous violations of restaurant buffet etiquette have you seen?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Procrastinates a lot.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why do I sweat (mostly on face) when I eat usually spicy food?
That's it for today.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What trains transport cars and passengers near Pompano Beach, Florida that goes to New York?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Are you able to lie, even though you have Aspergers?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can you tell me something about yourself?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.